BDSM play with a trans escort is amazing, and wonderful and extremely satisfying, whatever particular kink you are into, a skilled and experienced trans escort can make it a reality.
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To make sure that you have the best time having naughty, nasty BDSM sex with your favourite trans escort they will want to ensure the play is safe and that includes using safe words and danger words – do you know the difference?
BDSM Safe & Danger Words
Safe and danger words are exactly what they seem, the opposite of each other. The beauty of this concept is that it’s a simple, instant way to say no or to express what you want to start doing. Safe words have been around forever and they’re a must if you want to push boundaries with your partner and explore previously unknown fantasies or take things further than ever before. Safe words represent one of the core elements of sex – consent. This is why it’s vital to have your exit strategy planned if you need it; no one should carry on doing something that they’ve changed their minds about.
What does a safe word do?
In a nutshell – it’s designed to take you, quite literally, to safety. If you’re planning to change things up in the bedroom and perhaps try role play, bondage, experimenting with whips and chains, then you should have a conversation with your partner beforehand to decide on a word or phrase which means “Hey, I’m not comfortable with this now, you need to stop.” It’s very important to discuss the concept fully with your trans escort so that you’re both guaranteed to be on the same page when it comes to your bedroom antics and you can relax in the knowledge that you have all bases covered. You may even want to incorporate the words ‘No’ and ‘Stop’ into your bedroom play without meaning them.
The word you pick doesn’t need to be overly complex, but it does need to be a word which stands out enough to be instantly recognisable, but equally not part of everyday conversation. The place name of where you met or first had sex, or the name of your favourite restaurant are both along the lines that you should go down when deciding on your safe word.
What does a danger word do?
Imagine this: you’re sitting at work and thinking about the sexual fun you’d like to indulge in later. A particularly naughty scenario that you’re both familiar with pops into your mind and you want to suggest this to your partner. Send them a text message! Perfect. But typing out instructions is hardly in the spirit of the game and it’s quite likely to knock your libido down a peg or two. But this doesn’t need to happen. Like with a safe word, discuss the concept of danger words with your partner so you both have a way of signalling what you would like to do without having to spell it out. If you’d like to have a sure-fire way to kick start your naughty antics without a few minutes of discussion first, then choose a danger word which lets your partner know exactly what’s on your mind and what you want to do about it.
Again, it’s important to choose a word which is immediately recognisable, but also not something that can be misconstrued or slip by unnoticed.
Safe words and danger words – bring your imagination into the bedroom and give in to your basest desires with the sexiest of trans escorts.