The Ins & Outs of Topping & Bottoming with A Trans Escort

Unlike your straight friends that have variations of the same basic sexual practice, when you’re having sex with a shemale you have the option to engage in multiple positions.

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To ensure that you enjoy the best possible sex experience with a trans escort, it’s helpful to know what her personal preferences are. You’ll need to know if she’s a top or a bottom or is she’s versatile.

What is Topping?

Topping is the sexual practice of taking charge of penetration as the giver on ‘top’. ‘Tops’ are generally the dominant partner in a sex act.

What Does Bottoming Mean?

As the name suggests, if you’re the ‘bottom’ during sex, you are the receiver of dick. Someone who is submissive is more likely to want to be a ‘bottom’.

What if you can’t decide?

There are no hard and fast rules that state that you have to solely be a ‘top’ or a ‘bottom’ when you’re on a hook up with a trans escort. If you have no particular preference, and you enjoy switching it up by swapping positions, it’s polite to check with your escort to find out what she prefers. While many trans escorts love to experiment, not all of them may want to be as ‘versatile’ as you. Ask her what she likes and respect her choice.

Should you clean before anal sex?

While most ‘tops’ prefer to plunge their rock-hard dick into a butt hole that is scrupulously clean, some horny guys are happy to fuck regardless of whether or not you’ve checked for poop.

It’s polite to shower and douche before you have sex that involves anal. Some trans escorts will insist that you do a pre-sex check, so that they can avoid any mess.

What lube should you use?

When you’re having sex with a trans escort, don’t try to impress her with your porn star moves by using spit as lubrication. Only use slick, high-quality silicone or water-based lube to ensure that the sensitive anal tissues are not torn or damaged during penetrative sex.

What’s the best way to avoid anal injury?

The anus is a super sensitive muscle that should be handled with care. Before penetrating with a penis, it’s a good idea to prep it with a lubed up finger or an anal training sex toy.

During anal sex, keep an eye out for signs of bleeding. All of the thrusting and friction can result in micro-fissures, which sometimes bleed. If you experience a lot of bleeding, or are in extreme pain, don’t delay in going to the nearest hospital to get the injury checked out.

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