When and How to use Safe Words with your Trans Escort

If you are into BDSM then you will be familiar with safe words, but have you ever used one with your favourite Trans Escort? If you are completely new to BDSM but would have horny fantasies that you want to play out, then you will need to know what a safe word is and when to use one.

What is a Safe Word?

Essentially it is a word you can say that will stop the kinky action if you want to stop, are too uncomfortable and need a break. This is especially important if you are engaging in BDSM play or role plays where part of the story is that you are begging them to stop, when what you really mean is, god keep going! For this reason, a safe word is chosen so the two meanings can be identified and both you and your trans escort feel happy and secure that you will have the best experience ever with some simple safety measures in place.

Does all BDSM sex need Safe Words

No, not always, for those in relationships who know each other well, they may know how to read the other persons body language etc very well and so no safe word may be needed. But for the most part and especially if you are organising BDSM play with a new trans escort then the establishment of a safe word is a sensible idea.

What Word Should I Use?

The safe word itself should be nothing to do with the scenario you are going to play out. It should be something that is perhaps a little silly, or unusual so it cannot in any way be confused with the actions you and your trans escort are playing out. It can be the same safe word every time or you can pick a new one for every encounter, the choice is completely up to you. Basic choices for the safe word include the obvious ‘Safe Word’ or ‘Red’ – these are quite universal and there is less of a danger of you forgetting them in the heat of the moment. Other popular choices include food, Pineapples or Pancakes, Famous People, or even cities or favourite quotes, although single words work best if you are just starting out. The only downside to picking something silly is that if you just need a break and want to get back into it shouting a silly word can break the mood a little. Although with a sexy trans escort by your side there will be no hardship in getting you right back in there when you are ready.

When to us the Safe Word with My Trans Escort

The quick answer is when you feel like it, there are no rules, this is your experience so do what makes you feel horny and confident to continue, if it is your first time with a trans escort and you want to try something really kinky then let them know that you will be trying out the safe word early into your play just so you feel confident in using it should you need to later on. After that, use the word if it is not going how you want it to and want to provide more instruction, if you are in an uncomfortable position, if you need the loo, if you just want to take a 10 min break and then get back to it, or for any other reason.

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