I am Miss Valentina Dellagravis — a Luxury Trans Dominatrix, Sex Witch, and High Priestess of Erotic Alchemy. At 6’4”, with a life that has spanned continents and boardrooms, I now wield erotic power as ritual, initiation, and transformation.
My presence is commanding, mischievous, and deeply nurturing. Stern yet loving, I embody both maternal softness and sensual sadism. I am at once Mommy Domme and High Priestess — capable of unmaking you with a glance, a word, or a touch.
My Philosophy
I believe the erotic is the language of the divine. Shame can be alchemised into freedom, vulnerability into power, submission into liberation. Every encounter is an initiation — not casual, but sacred, playful, and transformative.
With me, luxury is not the setting. It is the depth of experience, the rare freedom of surrender, and the knowledge that you are worth this investment in yourself.
Who I Am
I am a post-op trans woman who has lived my entire life in the liminal space between male and female. I embody both energies and weave them into my work. You may call this trans, intersex, or simply Sex Witch: I am all of these, and more.
I have lived and worked across the world — in North, South, and Central America; in Europe and Africa; and in Asia. I speak English, French, Italian, and Spanish fluently, and I am at home in every hall of privilege and power.
My background is as rare as my practice: educated in the Ivy League and at one of the world’s most prestigious business schools, I first became a CEO in my early 30’s. Today, I bring the same discretion, intelligence, and sophistication into my sessions as I once did into boardrooms.
My Depth
I am a trained somatic therapist, Reiki practitioner, tantrica, and sensual massage specialist. My touch is intentional, healing, and deeply erotic. I am also a medical herbalist and nutritionist, and my knowledge of the body, psyche, and spirit flows seamlessly into my play.
This unique depth — ritual, business, therapy, mysticism — allows me to hold a space that few can. I meet you where you are, and I take you further than you thought possible.
What You Can Expect
Domination with me is a dance of surrender and revelation. I adore rope and shibari, impact play, erotic touch, and the intimacy of long, unhurried encounters. I welcome overnights, travel, and retained relationships where devotion unfolds into transformation.
I delight in theatre, opera, fine dining, art, and travel. Extended bookings allow us to experience not just play, but connection — a rare balance of companionship and submission.
My world is open to all respectful, generous seekers: queer, trans, questioning, FLINTA, littles, pets, couples, gender explorers. Your desires are safe with me, free from judgment.
The Invitation
Bring me your vulnerability, and I will show you what you are capable of.
Submission with me is liberation.

My preferred date is FMTY, and I nearly always prioritise long, quality time together...I am not a transactional Mistress/Dominatrix, and really enjoy getting to know my play partners. I generally book up quite fully in the short to medium term, so if you want to see me then you need to book in advance. I typically advertise my travel schedule well in advance, but in the meantime, the bulk of my business is FMTY, so book me and I will come to you.

I offer a unique mix of tantric practices, somatic therapy, energy work, and sex. As a dominatrix, I believe in the inevitable rise of women, and am fully committed to women on top in power dynamics. This way of thinking infuses all aspects of my life. If you are woman and a client, there is much for us to explore in the subtle play between light and dark, dominance and submission, male and female, shame and liberation. If you are a man and a client, finding your inner feminine and encouraging it to settle, letting go of shame...these are things that make music for me and why I love my work. What I am most is a Sex Witch, and eager to discover the parts of you that you might not even know yourself.