ABOUT
I am Mx Valentina Dellagravis — a luxury trans ********** and companion offering refined, intentional encounters grounded in authority, care, and presence.
At 6’4”, with a life shaped by continents, cultures, and leadership at the highest levels, I bring a commanding yet deeply attentive energy to my work. My style is stern yet nurturing, intelligent yet playful — a balance of discipline, structure, and embodied care.
I am not a fantasy persona. I am a woman who knows how to lead, contain, and hold space — and who expects respect, maturity, and generosity in return.

MY APPROACH
My work centres on ******** dynamics, ritual, and connection. I create encounters where clients can step out of performance and into guided surrender — whether that takes the form of structure, intimacy, or quiet focus.
I believe that:
****** is most powerful when it is chosen, not demanded
Authority is most effective when it is calm, grounded, and confident
Luxury is measured by depth of experience, not speed or entitlement
Each encounter is bespoke and shaped by mutual chemistry, trust, and intention.

INTIMACY & COMPANIONSHIP
I do offer intimate companionship, and physical intimacy may be part of an encounter when it arises naturally and consensually.
However, intimacy with me is relational, not transactional.
It is never assumed, negotiated as a menu item, or discussed crudely.
Those seeking guaranteed ****** access, explicit phone conversations, or rushed arrangements will not be a good fit.

WHO I AM
I am a post-operative trans woman with a lifelong experience of navigating power, identity, and embodiment. I draw on this depth to offer a presence that is both grounded and expansive.
My background includes:
Senior leadership and executive experience
Training in somatic therapy, ******, and body-based practices
Fluency in English, French, Italian, and Spanish
Comfort in both private settings and high-end social environments
I bring discretion, intelligence, and composure into every interaction.

WHAT TO EXPECT
Clients who see me are typically seeking:
Confident, female-led authority
Structured dominance with care and attention
Intelligent companionship and presence
Longer, unhurried engagements
I give preference to extended bookings, return clients, and those who understand that meaningful experiences require time and intention.

BOUNDARIES & ETIQUETTE
I do not take unsolicited phone calls.
I do not discuss explicit ****** acts by phone or message.
Initial contact should be respectful and focused on:
Time, duration, and location
The type of dynamic or experience you are seeking
Any relevant boundaries or expectations
Courtesy, clarity, and discretion are essential.

THE INVITATION
If you are seeking something thoughtful, grounded, and distinct —
If you value authority that is calm rather than performative —
If you understand that intimacy is something that emerges, not something you demand —
Then we may be well matched.

My preferred date is FMTY, and I nearly always prioritise long, quality time together...I am not a transactional Mistress/Dominatrix, and really enjoy getting to know my play partners. I generally book up quite fully in the short to medium term, so if you want to see me then you need to book in advance. I typically advertise my travel schedule well in advance, but in the meantime, the bulk of my business is FMTY, so book me and I will come to you.

I offer a unique mix of tantric practices, somatic therapy, energy work, and sex. As a dominatrix, I believe in the inevitable rise of women, and am fully committed to women on top in power dynamics. This way of thinking infuses all aspects of my life. If you are woman and a client, there is much for us to explore in the subtle play between light and dark, dominance and submission, male and female, shame and liberation. If you are a man and a client, finding your inner feminine and encouraging it to settle, letting go of shame...these are things that make music for me and why I love my work. What I am most is a Sex Witch, and eager to discover the parts of you that you might not even know yourself.