Great Trans and Queer Nights out in London

London is an amazing city and one of the most trans and queer friendly places on the planet. So, if you are looking for a great night out in London with your Trans Escort and you really want to get out there are party here are a few great suggestions that you won’t want to miss.

Partying with a Trans Escort

You can also ask your gorgeous trans escort where they can recommend you go; they will have some great ideas on where is safe and fun for you to party the night away with a gorgeous trans escort before

The Wayout Club – The Minories, 64-73 Minories, near Limehouse

Trans owned and operated this happy, trans friendly club has been booming since 1993! Owner Vicky Lee loves to ensure the evening experience for trans people in her establishment is second to none, and has even written books on the subject, ensuring a safe, fun place for everyone.

All are welcome at the Wayout Club, there are no boundaries to gender expression or love, and while all parts of the LGBTQ+ community are welcome at this queer London club it does have weekly events specifically for the trans community. Celebrated every week are the T-Party Girls, a dance performance act made up exclusively of trans women, making it a fun and friendly night for trans people and their admirers.

She.World – 6 Leytonstone Road near Stratford

She.World is a cosy, discrete and intimate place where the transgender community can feel safe and loved. This is a forward-thinking place for trans people and their friends and admirers to come and have some fun. This is a no judgement space where you can express yourself as you please. There are three great floors in this party, and it also includes a cloakroom, changing room, private zones including comfy cabins, places to watch videos, a lounge, basement and a relaxing garden. Lots of space for you to explore whatever your particular vibe is!

Ted’s Space – 305a North End Road near Fulham

Opened in 1990 Ted’s place is an intimate basement bar in the heart of Fulham! Dark rooms with a laid back vibe make this a queer friendly space not to be missed if you are in the area. While all genders are welcomed during the week, there are special nights each week dedicated to trans people, their friends, and admirers.

Bombshell  – 30 Lisle Street in Soho

Known as London’s premier club for gender bending clientele including trans, drag, and non-binary folk. Tucked inside a basement in the heart of Soho, Bombshell is a safe space for anyone exploring or celebrating gender queerness in all its bountiful joy. It’s a great space for friends to go clubbing in a gender celebratory environment and gender-neutral loos reinforce this safe and welcoming space.

Bombshell is a great place to meet like minded people who are looking for a fun party in the heart of London. You can catch the UK’s best drag acts, great live cabaret, or great DJ’s playing everything from disco to RnB, to fun and funky pop tunes.

Zodiac Bar – 119 Hampstead Road, Camden

This is one of the most amazing places to visit if you are looking for a trans friendly bar in London. Zodiac is a loud, excitable, very friendly, and very proud LGBTQ+ bar and club and it is quite a new queer venue that everyone is keen to be part of. Every Thursday there is a night dedicated to trans folk, and it includes great sexy trans women who put on live shows and has a great line up each week.

Are you into FinDom? Why a Trans Escort could be your Perfect Mistress

Trans Escorts are the most sensual and exciting women on the planet and however you want to play, they will play with you. One of the most exciting ways to play with a gorgeous trans escort is to make them your mistress and play dominatrix games.

Trans Dominatrix

A trans dominatrix is a trans woman who also loves to be a dominatrix. A dominatrix is someone who takes on a dominant role in BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, Masochism) activities. They may engage in various forms of power exchange, role play, and consensual domination with their clients or partners. One of the most fun ways to engage with a trans dominatrix mistress is with findom.

What is FinDom?

Findom, short for financial domination, is a specific fetish or practice within the BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, Masochism) community. It involves a power dynamic where one person, known as the “dominant” or “findomme/findom” or in this case an amazing trans escort, gains control and dominance over another person, known as the “submissive” or “paypig” (typically a man), through financial means.

In a findom relationship, the submissive willingly gives up control of their finances to the dominant, who then exerts control and demands financial tributes or gifts from the submissive. This can be done through various means, such as direct cash transfers, purchasing items or services for the dominant, or providing access to the submissive’s financial accounts.

The focus of findom is primarily on the power dynamics associated with money and financial control rather than traditional BDSM activities. Findom relationships often involve humiliation, degradation, and psychological manipulation, with the submissive deriving pleasure from surrendering their financial resources and experiencing financial exploitation.

It’s important to note that participation in findom is consensual, and all parties involved should engage in clear communication and negotiation to establish boundaries and consent.

Dominatrix Activities

Along with Findom, here are some other fun and exciting dominatrix activities.

Dominatrix activities can vary widely depending on the preferences and boundaries of the individuals involved. Along with Findom, here are some other fun and exciting dominatrix activities.

  • BDSM Power Exchange: Dominatrixes often engage in power exchange dynamics, where they take on a dominant role and their partners or clients assume a submissive role. This can involve various forms of control, discipline, and obedience.
  • Role Play: Dominatrixes may engage in role play scenarios to explore power dynamics and fantasies. They may take on roles such as strict teachers, stern bosses, or demanding mistresses, while their submissive partners assume corresponding roles.
  • Bondage and Restraint: Dominatrixes may use bondage techniques to restrain their submissives. This can involve ropes, handcuffs, leather restraints, or other tools to restrict movement and enhance the sense of power and submission.
  • Impact Play: This refers to the use of physical impact, such as spanking, flogging, paddling, or caning. Dominatrixes may administer these activities to their submissives as a form of punishment, discipline, or sensory stimulation.
  • Sensory Play: Dominatrixes may explore sensory deprivation or sensory overload to heighten their submissive’s experiences. This can involve blindfolds, hoods, gags, or incorporating various sensations like temperature play, wax play, or electrostimulation.
  • Humiliation and Degradation: Some dominatrixes and their submissives may enjoy incorporating verbal humiliation, degradation, or objectification into their play. This can range from mild teasing to more intense psychological humiliation, always with clear consent and respect for boundaries.
  • Fetish Exploration: Dominatrixes often cater to specific fetishes and may incorporate activities related to foot worship, latex or leather fetishism, role reversal (forced feminization or sissification), sensory play, or other specific interests.

Consent and Communication are Key

It’s crucial to remember that engaging in any BDSM activities, including those performed by a transgender dominatrix, requires clear and enthusiastic consent, open communication, and respect for boundaries. Safety and well-being should always be prioritized, and engaging in activities should be consensual and mutually enjoyable for all parties involved.

Their Place or Yours – Where to Meet Your Trans Escort

There is no right or wrong place to meet with your Trans Escort you will be able to see from their profile if they are happy to do Incalls, Outcalls or both.

Where to Meet Your Trans Escort

Some Trans Escorts are set up in such a way that they are happy and comfortable to have you in their space and you can visit them, some escorts even prefer that and it makes a great place to get away from the hustle and bustle of your daily life and escape for an hour or two with them. Meeting a Trans Escort in their space also is perfect if you live in a shared home or need some privacy away from your day to day life.

Many people find it preferable for their Trans Escort to come to them in their home. This provides comfortable familiar surroundings so you can just relax and enjoy the time you spend with the escort you don’t have to worry about finding the right door or getting lost on the way to their home. You can also agree to meet at a place like a local landmark or tube station before you bring them back to your home.

Do You Have Lots of Sex Toys

If you are into games or toys and want your escort to join you then having them meet you at your place where you have all your items all ready to go is probably a good idea. If you are dressing in a particular way or expecting your escort to then this also may factor into your decision about where to meet your escort.

It is also good to ask the trans escort whether they have a price difference for their place or yours, as if one is cheaper then you perhaps can get a better deal and spend more time with them without spending the extra money.

Hotel Sex with a Trans Escort

It is also acceptable and common to meet in a neutral place like a hotel. If you are travelling for work or are on holiday and want to have some fun with a local escort then they can meet you in your hotel room. Many people also meet their escorts in a hotel near where they live as it gives the evening a sense of occasion and anticipation, especially if you are booking the escort for the whole night.

Wherever you decide to meet your escort ensure that you keep an eye on the time or set a timer so you don’t overstay at his place and he knows when he is ready to go from yours. This avoids any confusion or awkwardness at the end of his time with you.

The trans escorts on Sleepy Girl are happy to take any questions about where to meet or after you contact them they may even suggest a preference but ultimately it is up to you. If you want to meet at their place then take the time to find out where it is and how long it will take you to get there so you don’t arrive late and if you decide to meet them at your place then try and ensure you have a clean and tidy space, put some music on to make a pleasant and relaxing atmosphere ready for your escort to arrive.

Sexy Massage Techniques from your Trans Escort

It is no secret that transsexual escorts give amazing massages. If you want to truly relax and having a mind blowing sensual as well as sexual experience then read on to learn some sexy massage techniques.

Why a massage?

Quite apart from the sexual element, there are a whole other lot of health benefits associated with being naked and having slippery oil rubbed into every inch of your skin. It’s a great way to completely relax and unwind, and a great idea for something to do with your trans escort.

Now, the massage technique that your trans escort will use depends on whether this is a straightforward encounter, or a sexual one with all the thrill of the unspoken messages being gently rubbed into your skin. Your escort will have a bunch of massage techniques that they are just dying to show you. Firstly, though, let us set the scene. A private space, a bed (or hammock, see below) and your chosen trans escort standing naked and exactly where you want them. If they stand near your head and concentrates on your face, neck and scalp, just the proximity of their naked breasts in this position is more than enough to excite.

A different way of massage.

Something fun that it isn’t often used, but feels amazing, is having your massage in a hammock, rather than a solid bed. The rocking motion means that your escort’s hands will slip and slide in a not an entirely predictable way as they move over your body, adding to the thrill of the experience. It also means that you can be teased just when you’re really beginning to enjoy yourself, by moving outwards and inwards – a great idea if you’re into edging. Your trans escort will be massaging you in a way that changes with intensity and therefore prolongs the pleasure.

Erotic Massage

Exactly as it says on the tin, an erotic massage is designed to stimulate and arouse from powerful manipulation of well-oiled limbs. This is also about your escort using delayed gratification, so don’t expect too much, too quickly. Tantric massage is very similar but tends to be used for longer massage sessions and builds up the sexual arousal slowly and gently. Your trans escort will be delighted to use this technique on you, if that’s what you want.

Or perhaps you’d like to explore spirituality with your escort, in which case they will love to show how they can facilitate the exchange of energy and take you down the path to full, sexual potency. The Sacred Touch massage technique that he will use here, allows the exploration of yourself in regard to your spirituality, sensuality and sexuality. During the Sacred Touch, all kinds of sexual exchange are permitted, making it an ideal choice for a way to spend an erotic evening with your favourite trans escort.

Whatever type of erotic massage you are looking for your trans escort will be able to satisfy your needs.

Sex Swing Positions with a Trans Escort

Trans escorts are adventurous, amazing, sexy and available at the click of a button! If you have ever wanted to try something completely new, the try having sex with a trans escort on a sex swing! You will never forget it!

Trans Escorts are Amazing

Have you ever tried a sex swing? Well if you haven’t you certainly should and we have a list of sex swing positions to make your experience go with, well, a swing! We have the lowdown on the best sex positions you need to try!

Find a Sex Swing

Perhaps you don’t have a sex swing at home, not that many people do. They are quite bulky and can be quite pricey and if you really want to give it a workout it needs to be fixed to the wall making it a permanent feature which is not practical for most people’s homes. So, if you don’t have you own sex swing, where can you use one? Trans escort have a great set up in their homes which can include a sex swing so when you are looking for an escort remember to mention that you want to try a sex swing and you can see if any of them have one ready to use. If they do have one at home they will also know the most amazing positions to put you in to make sure you get the most out of your sex swing experience. You could also rent a BDSM Dungeon with an escort, they will almost certainly have a sex swing included and many other amazing toys!

Sex Swing Positions

Here are some of the best ways to use a sex swing in different and unusual ways:

Air & Oral – Sometimes oral sex can be a bit awkward on the neck, especially is there is a height differential between partners. Having one of the partners suspended on the sex swing not only puts them in a great open position for oral they can also be swung backwards and forwards in a rhythm that send them to heaven!

Hanging Doggy Style – No longer needing to be on all fours or flat on your stomach for this position, the receiver can be twisted and rotated at any angle to make doggy style the most interesting position you had forgotten about!

Swinging 69 – Because the sex swing takes the weight of one or both persons getting deep into mutual orals sex is a revelation when using a sex swing. No longer does one or both parties feel a little compressed, the swing is less of a swing and more of a weightlifter for this classic pose.

Find the rhythm – The best thing about a sex swing, is that it is, well, a swing! And so, setting one partner off to swing backwards and forwards while the other stands and waits for them to return to place their penis either in their ass or in their mouth is a pleasure like no other. Watching a partner swing back at you reading to plunge you into pleasure again is a really great way to use the swing!

In addition to these options you will find that the absence of gravity and the swinging motion of a sex swing can make any position a new favourite!

Get Out of a Boring Sex Rut and Hire a Trans Escort

There are many reasons why you would hire a trans escort but one of the biggest reasons is that the sex you are having right now is just boring! Whether you are in a relationship or not sex is an important part of every man’s life and a part of it that may need attention.

Below are some big indicators that it’s time to try something new.

  1. Feeling like sex has become a chore?

Is sex a chore!! Well if you are feeling like this it is definitely time to try one of the sexy transgender escorts on sleepygirl! This can take a toll on how you feel about yourself and the partners you have. A sex life that’s as predictable as a 70’s sitcom rerun can make you feel like you are either with the wrong partner or are not trying anything new. Ruts suck. They are boring and the siphon the juice out of just about anything: your job, your diet, and your relationships.

  1. Same Old Routine?

We are creatures of habit, whether we want to admit it or not. This includes the weekly food shop and also your lovemaking. Habits are not bad if they work for you. The trouble is, routines can become so…routine. Everyone needs a little variety, some hot and spicy chillies to spice up the same old dish can really make a difference so choose a trans escort and see how hot it can get.

  1. In a Rut?

Do you find your eyes starting to roll and even glaze over when someone says so what are you into? A trans escorts is a complete break to the routine, and something exotic and unique. They are perfect for both gay and straight men to break a boring sex rut!

  1. Variation is key!

Try varying the pressure, try sometimes light and occasionally more forceful. Ensure that it playful and you are with a partner that you trust or better yet a trans escort who can do exactly what you need. Find out what works for both of you ask “Which feels better, A or B?” See if you can learn what sort of touch doesn’t work for them, what’s pleasurable, what’s a major turn-on. When you’ve finished, it’s their turn to give and your turn to receive. The object of the game is for each person to find out more about what sort of touch feels pleasurable to receive, and for each person to learn something about how to touch the other.

  1. Satisfaction Guaranteed!

Very often unsatisfactory or boring sex happens because you are not getting what you need. The best, easiest and most fun way to ensure you get everything that you want and nothing you don’t is to hire a trans escort. There are a great range of trans escorts available on Sleepy Girl just waiting for your call.

Whatever you are into and whoever you choose to do it with your sex should be fun, rewarding, satisfying (do we have to say safe) and defiantly not boring. If it is try some of the ideas above and most of all have a great time doing it!