Even if you’re not really into BDSM that much, you have to admit that spanking is kind of hot. Even just a light tap on the ass from your transgender escort as part of a role play sex scene can feel amazing, and maybe you want to take your escort over your knee and give her a spanking for being a naughty girl?
If the though of being spanked, or spanking your trans escorts gets you going, then our quick guide on spanking is the perfect place for you to start with your fantasy.
What is Spanking?
Exploring BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) activities like spanking with your trans escort can be an exciting and intimate journey for beginners. However, it’s crucial to approach such activities with care, communication, and consent. Here’s our beginner’s guide to spanking for BDSM-related sex with your transsexual escort:
- Understanding Consent: Consent is the cornerstone of any BDSM activity, including spanking. Both partners must enthusiastically agree to participate, establish boundaries, and have a safe word or signal to stop the activity if needed. Consent should be informed, enthusiastic, and ongoing throughout the experience. Always make sure you have consent and check again as the play evolves.
- Communication: Open and honest communication is key to a successful spanking session. Discuss desires, limits, and expectations with your partner beforehand. Talk about the intensity of spanking desired, preferred implements (hands, paddles, floggers, etc.), and any specific areas of the body to focus on or avoid. Always discus if either you or the escort does not want marks left on their body after the spanking play.
- Start Slow: If you’re new to spanking, it’s essential to start slow and gradually build intensity. Begin with gentle taps or light swats to warm up the skin and gauge your partner’s response. As you both become more comfortable, you can increase intensity and experiment with different sensations.
- Check-Ins: Throughout the spanking session, continually check in with your partner to ensure they’re comfortable and enjoying the experience. Encourage them to communicate any discomfort or desire to stop, and respect their boundaries at all times.
- Experiment with Sensations: Spanking can provide a range of sensations, from stinging to thudding, depending on the intensity and implements used. Experiment with different techniques, speeds, and rhythms to find what feels most pleasurable for both partners. Incorporating varying sensations can enhance arousal and excitement. The types of implements you use will create different sensations, from your open hand, to floggers and cane and whips, they all create a different sensation on the skin.
- Focus on the Butt: While spanking can be done on various parts of the body, the buttocks are the most common and safest area for beginners. Aim for the fleshy parts of the buttocks, avoiding the lower back, spine, and kidneys. Start with gentle taps and gradually increase intensity as desired. More experience players can focus on other areas of the body such as the thighs and back, but for beginners, start with the ass.
- Safe Word and Signals: Establish a safe word or signal before beginning the spanking session. This word or signal should be unmistakable and immediately halt the activity if uttered or shown. It’s essential to respect the safe word or signal and stop the spanking immediately when it’s communicated. If you are using restraints as well, ensure you can communicate the safe word and signal clearly.
- Aftercare: Aftercare is a crucial aspect of any BDSM activity, including spanking. After the session, take time to comfort and reassure your trans escort, both emotionally and physically. Provide affection, cuddling, and verbal reassurance to help them transition back to a state of relaxation and comfort.
- Educate Yourself: Take the time to educate yourself about spanking and BDSM practices. Read books, articles, and online resources, and consider attending workshops or classes to learn more about safety, techniques, and best practices. Your trans escort can be a great source of information, so speak with her about spanking before your session and learn from what he can teach you.
- Respect Limits and Boundaries: Every individual has different limits and boundaries when it comes to BDSM activities like spanking. Respect your partner’s limits and never push them to do anything they’re not comfortable with. Consensual BDSM is built on trust, respect, and mutual satisfaction.
Remember, BDSM activities like spanking should always be consensual, safe, and mutually enjoyable for all parties involved. By prioritizing communication, consent, and respect, you can explore spanking and other BDSM activities in a safe and fulfilling way with your escort and importantly, have some amazing, fun, kinky sex.