Anal sex is amazing. Period. Gay men have known this for eons, and their straight counterparts have not been too far behind. However, the taboo surrounding anal sex has gone on for a long time making it still feel a little naughty or alien and puts straight men off from trying this amazing sexual practice. Here are a few tips for straight guys wanting to try anal sex, and some suggestions about how to go about having an amazing anal sex experience.
Does wanting anal sex make me gay?
One of the biggest taboos around anal sex is that for some men this makes them question their sexuality, or they worry that society will judge their sexuality if they want to try anal sex. Wanting anal sex does not make you gay, or even bi – you can be completely straight and love anal sex, they do not have to be mutually exclusive and as more and more men try it, anal sex in straight relationships is becoming more and more common.
Does Anal Sex Hurt?
One of the biggest questions when it comes to anal sex is asking if there is any pain associated with it. The short answer is yes there can be, but that doesn’t mean you should not try it. Having anal penetration for the first time can be an unnerving experience and if you start off with something too big, or don’t use enough lubricant then there can be some pain. This however will quickly be overcome with the incredible feelings of having anal penetration and the intense orgasms it can produce.
Is Anal Sex Messy
Probably the second biggest question for first time anal is – is it messy? A completely reasonable question given the nature and the area we are talking about. If you relieve your bowels a few hours before sex and have a good wash of the area, then you should be completely fine. It may feel like you will have an accident but very few do, and if you are with a trusted partner then you can tell them how you are feeling especially for the first few times and they can help reassure you until you are a little more experienced.
How to get started
Most men start small and let their anus expand and get used to being penetrated by perhaps their fingers first and then smaller dildos or vibrators. Using a strap on between heterosexual couples is becoming more and more normal (called pegging) as a way to add more excitement and satisfaction into the bedroom. Use lots of lube and take it slow until you know what you like is the best advice for starting on anal penetration if you are a straight guy.
Trans Escorts and Anal Sex
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